Jennifer Garner’s Sunday ‘To Be’ List I want “to be” funny when my kids expect me to be annoyed. I want “to be” a good and grateful received of friends, of empty hours, and of gifts. I want “to be” open to longer conversations— without reaching for my phone, physically or mentally. I want “to be” that magical combination of organized/prepared and flexible/spontaneous. I want “to be” a curious daughter.