4 Financial Steps for Your Next Chapter


One day, I had a happy family and a prosperous life. The next, I was alone, sobbing on a park bench and wondering how I would support my three kids. After 18 years of marriage, I had to start again.

And I did.

Despite a successful financial career earlier in life, at the time of my divorce I wasn’t quite sure if my name was on the house or our checking accounts, let alone how our assets were invested or the specifics of our retirement plan. The demands of running a household, raising children and subsequent division of duties between my husband and I led to such blind spots. To successfully rebuild my life, my first step was regain a comprehensive understanding of my finances.

What happened to me happens to millions (even those in the happiest of marriages). Life gets busy, and it’s easy to become relatively uninvolved with your finances, particularly when much of the management seems to take place on autopilot. But to thrive in your next chapter — whether you are rebuilding after the end of a marriage, starting a business or redefining retirement — taking charge of your wealth now will help you make confident and informed decisions moving forward.

Where do you start?

Take Inventory

Understanding the resources you have to work with is an essential step. First, take inventory of everything you own and its current value. Unfortunately, not all of your possessions are monetary assets. For example, your furniture and clothing don’t count. But personal assets do, including your home, car(s), art and jewelry, as well as financial assets such as cash, bank accounts, investment accounts, retirement accounts, interests in private businesses and other holdings that have a cash value.

Next, create a list of everything you owe. This list should include all of your outstanding commitments. In addition to the balances, be sure to note the interest rate and duration of each loan. This will come in handy if you need to develop a plan to pay off your debt.

Think “45-20-35”

While I am not a fan of tracking every dollar you spend (after all, do you really keep all those receipts?), creating a framework to help you be more intentional with your spending is a good idea. I suggest a 45-20-35 plan. I put at least 20 percent of my take-home pay toward my future; it’s a nonnegotiable expense. To do this, I limit my fixed overhead to no more than 45 percent. Allocating at least 35 percent to variable costs (food, entertainment, clothing, vacations) enables me to control my expenses and consistently meet my savings goal. It also prevents me from having to dip into my savings or investment accounts if my income changes. But keep in mind that it is possible to save too much. Doing so could, for example, cause you to rely on credit cards to meet your monthly needs. Given that the average card charges 16.33 percent interest, this will undermine any return you’ve generated through your rigid savings plan.

Put Money to Work, Wisely

As you work to develop a plan to grow (or, as in my case, rebuild) your wealth, consider the following:

The fact is, not all assets are the same — they don’t grow the same, or even serve the same purpose. The equity in your home might be a significant asset, but it’s currently being used to put a roof over your head, and that is its only benefit until you sell it (something you may have no intention of doing). A hefty retirement account is important, but you will also pay a hefty price if you use it to access cash in an emergency.

The same is true for credit. Not all credit is the same, and not all credit should be treated that way. It comes down to the interest rate and how you use the money you borrow. If the terms are right (e.g., a mortgage at 2.75 percent vs. a credit card with an APR of 16 percent), leverage can be a great way to put otherwise illiquid cash to work to build your net worth.

Bottom line: As you develop a plan for your wealth, it’s important to think strategically about how to use your assets and credit to maximize your money’s earning power.

Build the Right Team

Managing wealth is generally not a DIY job. To do it successfully, you need a team. Often, this includes a CPA, estate-planning attorney and wealth advisor. Each of these experts should talk with you, not at you. They should speak in plain language and encourage you to answer and ask questions so you can work together to understand your goals and objectives, and what it will take to turn your vision into a reality.

Taking charge of your finances doesn’t happen overnight, but your commitment to do it can. With a few key steps and an unwavering belief that you can handle whatever comes your way—the good, the bad and the ugly—you can ensure you are positioned to make the most of your next chapter.


Steph is Director of Women and Wealth at Northern Trust. She is responsible for leading the firm’s advisory practice for women, and she oversees its Elevating Women initiative. Over the years, she has developed a specialized expertise in utilizing financial strategies and empowering women with the resources to become effective stewards of their wealth. Steph has also worked extensively with women across the country to help them address the financial impact of widowhood and divorce, and establish a solid foundation for the future. Steph’s expertise has been featured in Entrepreneur Magazine, MarketWatch, Fox News, Yahoo Finance, Business Insider, Barron’s, Bloomberg and Huffington Post. To learn more about her work, visit Elevating Women.

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